PLANNING A WEDDING … ( A supposedly my brother’s ) - a very LATE post
My brother told me yesterday that he has found the girl that he like to spend his life with .. after searching and searching and yes … searching, finally he met one, and like the old use to say, that you don’t have to search your soul mate so far away … He found his at our Kampong in Cibungkul ( location see below ..lol).
My mom was so excited ( everything that has got to do with planning a party .. she got excited), so like usual she told me to prepare lists of :
1. Kebaya – the traditional Javannese gown. ( For our side and the Girl’s side )
I’ve browsed some Kebaya for the families and of course for the bride. What I have in mind is something chic and simple but Faboulous …..
2. Wedding Invitation
3. Wedding Souvenir
My mother have thought about it thoroughly .. its either a hand towel or beauty mirror
4. Venue & Decoration
The venue is at our place, and it’s a morning till noon party
5. Wedding Cake
Have to be good
6. Food
12 side dish and 8 main course ( or prasmanan )
7. Seserahan ( I don’t know in English – it’s where the groom bring stuffs to the brides )
Consist of clothes, shoes .. etc
8. Wedding Ring
@ years after the wedding ....
They have 2 kids, a girl and a boy, and have to tell that their marriage are not easy, lots of adjustment, mis communication and fights, but I believe that they want to stay together because of love and kids.
Lesson Learn : Marriage is not for everybody, but if you decided on it, stick with it at least and try hard to make it work.
@ years after the wedding ....
They have 2 kids, a girl and a boy, and have to tell that their marriage are not easy, lots of adjustment, mis communication and fights, but I believe that they want to stay together because of love and kids.
Lesson Learn : Marriage is not for everybody, but if you decided on it, stick with it at least and try hard to make it work.
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