Surviving the BIG WHITE ELEPHANT ( Experience on Long Distance Relationship)
Yes, It's not a new one, lots has been said about this stuff on the internet, but since I happen to do the "stuff", I am obligated to tell my experience on surviving the relationship.
Yes, It's hard. Specially when you are used to having him near ( and yes I'm talking about SEX ), and harder, when you consider this guy is on your top 3 list of best sex ever ...
Yes, you need to learn how to trust each other. Imagining him partying with his friend, or worst, spending a night with an old friend, who happens to be a girl, is so freakin hard to accept. But, so far as love goes, it'll test your love and trust.
Yes, jealousy is a bitch. But on my defense, it could be something healthy too. I always think that with love, comes jealousy, so yes ladies, it's ok to get jealous for no reason, but let him know.
Yes, you need to stop thinking that it won't work. Sure, all your friends have their boyfriend near, and you can't stand watching how lovey dovey they are, and gets really annoyed when they just cancel your appointment because their bf wants to shag her that day. But, it won't hurt to take a chance on this person, listen to your heart, if it says otherwise, by all means,
Yes, communication is the key. Make sure to let him know how you've been doing and how you are feeling currently, tell him you miss him, and miss having you near too. Tell him that you also been planning lots of naughty stuff to do when he comes back. It won't hurt to say I love you before and after you've gone to bed. Just so ;)
Yes, taking selfies and send it to him is a must, specially when you are feeling sexy. And talking about being and getting sexy, watching some sexy stuff together and the same time, will also be a great idea. In some way, it help channeling how much you miss being with him, and him being with you.
Yes, having smartphones helps a lot ( so begin saving and stop buying all those crap online), and have one where you can have lot's of chat apps. I used Viber, Wassaps and Skype, so yeah, I am basically covered.
Yes, make plans. Lot's of it, even the ridiculous one. It'll take your mind off and helps to remind you that you are really looking forward to the day when you are going to see him again.
Yes, it's difficult when you are having an argument or fighting online or over your phone. And it could be a very risky one too, specially if it's based on a mis communication. So, you need to really open your heart to instant forgiveness, I mean, are all those arguments really worth it? ( since you can have a make up sex right away ).
Yes, preparation on how you or when you're going to meet can be fun. Imagine, you haven't seen him for lot's of sometimes, and when it's time for you to meet, it helps to set the location and mood for the best outcome.
So Ladies, Long Distance Relationship is crappy, but it can be good in someway, you will have a lot of times for yourself, your family and for your single friends. Have fun while he's away, get a new hobby and do a new stuff, or even better, a make over yourself, and surprise him :)
Good luck with your LDR, lemme know if your experience or whether your experiencing the same thing.
xoxo
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